if you must

yes yes we shouldn't judge you.

yes yes we should accept you as you 'am'.

yes yes you hate people who don't even know you but think they know you.

yes yes love you for who you are yada yada yada.

wake up and smell the redbull, honey. take a good look around you and then take a good look at yourself. we are humans; self-interest and competitiveness is an inherent part of us.

you may not realise it but you yourself are probably the most judgmental person you know. how many times have you made an inaccurate first impression of a person of the same gender as you just because that person is very, say, good-looking? a complete mindfuck, i know.

and when i rant on about this, i don't exclude myself. i judge people and people judge me. only i don't go around attacking people before they even start to. the first thing on a person's mind is probably just: oh it be cool if we could be friends. x